'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

ROC and Someone Else

When a person who is after convenience within his or her relationship or marriage realizes that he/she can no longer live with a partner without love and i.e. without any special feelings or passion, it means that the process of heart-of-stone melting is in full swing.

This moment may result in a few different outcomes for a hunter-after-conveniences. First outcome is when a person leaves his/her partner just because he/she can't stand the whole thing no more – this emptiness, this constant lack of satisfaction both spiritual and sexual one, the situation when he/she doesn't want his/her partner at all. In this case the person just goes without thinking in the pragmatic direction anymore.

Another outcome suggests people who can't refuse from comfort their partners share with them, they just can't survive the thought of leaving from money or any other convenience. However, these pragmatic individuals still have soul which strives for feelings and passions irrespective of how hard they may try to suppress these strivings. In this case people just start cheating on their convenient partners with someone else – someone who fits them spiritually, sexually, mentally. They meet with their lovers occasionally, get their share of true satisfaction and think they have no choice but come back to their convenient partners.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?