'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

ROC and Life's too Short

If you are involved in a relationship of convenience you are in a way wasting your time on nothing. Life is too short to live without love, everyone must remember this universal truth. Irrespective of one's possible materialistic beliefs, sooner or later a person realizes that his/her relationship of convenience gives luxury but deprives his/her of peace of mind and true happiness without non-stop pretence and fake emotions which in the long run exhaust and emptify people's souls.

Living with a person you love gives you a myriad of pleasant emotions, you enjoy each and every moment spent together – laughing together, cooking together, going on vacation together, just spending all day in bed – all those simple things the best things begin from when you're with a person you have deeply profound feelings for.

Living with a person you don't love is constant tension even though your life really is filled with luxury and absolute financial freedom. It means spending your time with someone you have no connection with, someone you don't desire or even someone you have nothing in common with –depends on the situation. It means deceiving your partner in case he/she naively thinks you are in love with him/her; it implies self-deception as well – in case both of you are well aware of the true essence of your relationship.

In any case, what would you prefer – enjoying your time spent with your wings wide spread and your love crowning your relationship, or wasting your time on a relationship without feelings (aka emotional torture)? In our view, the answer to this question is obvious.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?