'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

ROC and Hatred

Hatred is a strong feeling. Some say it's better than indifference, however, it's definitely worse than love. It's better not to feel hatred towards anyone, needless to say that hatred directed at you is scarcely healthy. However, unfortunately, hatred doesn't depend on people's desires, it is as spontaneous as love.

There are cases when relationship of convenience breeds hatred. It especially concerns situations when people set money as priority in a relationship. This hatred is born from close cooperation of irritation, nagging at each other, mutual reproaches, constant quarreling – all the things which flourish on a fertile soil of convenient relationship.

Think of all the films about hot charming women who marry old rich guys just because they want to live a peachy luxurious life. These money-minded ladies feel satisfaction with their choice in one prior to them sphere but other spheres which are vitally important are left blank. This blankness leaves noticeable trace in a woman's body and soul no matter how stony her heart is, as a result she starts looking for a lover who would satisfy her to the fullest extent.

When the woman finds him – young, handsome and passionate and falls in love with him, she definitely starts despising her financially stable but old and unloved husband even more. Often this despise turns into hatred which, according to all the detectives and action movies, may result in a disaster. In these situations hatred maims the lives of all the participants of relationship of convenience – that implies even the handsome and passionate odd man out.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?