'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

ROC and Deception

Any relationship of convenience is based on deception no matter what specific characteristic features each individual case may present. This deception brings no good to you or your partner, it only contributes to the most wide-spread outcome of relationship or marriage of convenience.

If both you and your partner are well aware of the fact that the foundation of your relationship is pure convenience – you are business partners, one of you is old, ugly but rich the other is young charming but poor (perfect match) or you are so-called more than friends with benefits (different situations are possible) – then you don't deceive anyone.

However, if your partner is in blissful ignorance (ignorance being the key word) regarding your lovelessness and your pretence, you simply lie to him or her. The fact that it's slightly indecent and cruel may not bother you too much; however, the whole thing will start bothering you once your deception and its numerous consequences turn upon you yourself.

Deception which exists within your relationship of convenience is of special type. It implies your long-term playing with a person's deep and sincere feelings and i.e. vulnerability in front of you. This may result in this deception playing a dirty trick on you and make you refuse of your used-to-be-stable materialistic beliefs and convictions.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?