'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

Relationship of Convenience

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship. The essence of the notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship. What exactly does it mean? It means that two people – man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

In the majority of cases this convenience suggests interest which is based on money: a girl feels convenient with a man because he has a lot of money. In this situation the notion of convenience implies stability, striving for comfort, freedom from working hard every night and day, first class desires, in other – generalizing words – lap of luxury. Same case may concern a poor-boy-plus-rich-lady-equals-'love' situations.

Another possible situation of a relationship of convenience is when a male lives with a female just because so far it's convenient for him to live with her. She loves him, caters to him, cooks for him, soothes him when he comes home from work all tired and worn-out. The man has no time to find anyone else to perform all these and many other pleasant duties of a wife. The fact that she will scarcely become his wife is not that fundamentally important...

Relationship of convenience can acquire many interesting characteristics, especially if we view each individual case from the close distance; one thing about such relationship is always stably the same – it desperately lacks true feelings.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?