'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

Partners vs. Soul Mates

What is the difference between partners and soul mates within the boundaries of the subject of our website? Guess you're already starting to understand it now that you have read a few articles on the subject.

So, if you live with a person for the sake of his/her money or other convenience(s) he/she offers to you, this person is scarcely your soul mate he/she is your partner. In case your partner is blissfully unaware of your pragmatic intentions, he/she may consider you're his/her soul mate by mistake, however, you definitely know the truth and will most likely reveal it by certain actions or attitude of yours – when your heart is tired of being that stony.

If your relationship or marriage is based on mutual love i.e. sincere feelings which are followed by trust, understanding, respect and loyalty, then of course the person you live with can be truly called your soul mate, the person your connection with whom is sacred and implies no hidden intentions.

Of course, there are rare cases when one's partner over time becomes a soulmate. For example, it may happen when a young woman marries a man who is much older than her. She may 'marry' his money first and foremost, however, it's quite possible that over time she grows to like him for his personal qualities and positive character traits like kindness, strength, wittiness, intelligence, decency, ability to treat a lady right etc. These cases are rare but when it happens it eases the life of two people who decided to get involved in a relationship with the flavour of convenience.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?