'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

MOC and Peace of Mind

Peace of mind is a vitally important constituent of our mental health. In case we lack it, we literally lose sleep and ability to perform even the most trivial everyday routines. When we have no peace of mind, we can't work or be productive normally, when we lack peace of mind we can't think of anything else except what to do or where to go to find it.

Marriage of convenience may bring us financial stability, secure present and future, pseudo-satisfaction with the whole thing. But marriage of convenience, relationship without feelings towards your partner (vs. soul mate) never brings you peace of mind.

What does it mean? It means that while officially being involved in your convenient relationship you will still continue looking for something (or someone) to satisfy your other wishes and desires with – desire to be held and touched right, desire to share true passion with someone, simple wish to be loved or at least wanted by a person you have true feelings for.

What is the result of all these subconscious thoughts and potential actions of yours? Deception plus self deception plus hurting yourself and the unloved person who is officially yours. Anything may be present here, anything but healing peace of mind. This leads to your life turning into remnants of harmony i.e. no m\harmony within your personality or with the world around you. You start feeling kinda lost and empty, your previous values are confused and no longer of value.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?