'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

MOC and Money

Of course, money matters a lot in our life. We can buy a lot of things, we can even buy love or health – to the extent which is usually unnoticed to the sight of people who avidly state that it's impossible. However, we won't lie and won't negate vital importance of financial stability nowadays.

Most marriages of convenience are made in financial heaven – money being the main convenience. This heaven is very promising at first – it promises love or pleasant feelings to the person whose money is hunted, plus it promises dreams-come-true to the 'hunter' who doesn't feel love towards his/her partner, and has feeling to his/her money instead. Such marriages may eventually turn into loveless hell, but who ever thinks about the damage before it is done.

People who usually go for marriage of convenience for financial reasons are deeply money-minded; they don't plan to marry people they love, they are practically programmed to fall for somebody who has a lot of money. Some of them overestimate their powers and eventually realize that they just cannot stand to live with people who are rich but who they have no feelings for.

Others just manage to set money as a priority to such complete extent that all their feelings seem to be concentrated at one side of life only – material one. These people are one hundred per cent all for the opinion that we are living in a material world, world where money makes their lives go round, not love, respect or some moral principles, this is their motto and they easily live up to it.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?