'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

MOC and Immigration

Immigration is also one of the most widespread conveniences (and conditions) of marriages without love. How does it happen? Say a person wants to move to another country from the developing country. In order to get visa, passport and all the following privileges in the foreign country i.e. in order to make the foreign country the native one, a person – an immigrant marries someone who permanently resides in this country.

Marriages of convenience which are made with the purpose of settling in a foreign country only can be of two characters. The first type implies the fact that one person – potential immigrant intentionally searches his (or more likely her) soul mate abroad, already having thoughts of immigrations in mind. The other person, just like it happens with Russian brides and foreign bridegrooms, just knows that ladies from a certain country are the best. He (in this situation the person is usually 'he') realizes that partially his lady wants to move to another country – prosperous and stable, but he still grows to become sure that she loves him most of all and is ready to live with him even in the jungles...

The second type of marriages of convenience which are made with the purpose of immigration in mind of one of the partners implies that both people – partners are well aware of the purpose of the whole process. They will get divorced eventually – when the immigrant acquires more rights in the foreign country and when they are through all possible suspicions from corresponding social structures. Of course, this marriage is a true fake, but at least it's made on mutually sincere conditions.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?