'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

Love without Convenience

In an ideal, love must know no restrictions, circumstances or conditions. It should stay above and beyond gossips, bystanders' opinions, distances, nationalities, odd men out, financial and sometimes even moral limitations. If two people love each other deeply, ideally nothing should stand in their way or prevent them from being with each other.

However, some people make up a different type of love – love which should be always accompanied by certain obligatory accessories. In the majority of cases these accessories are of material character. In other words, some people don't imagine their relationship based on feelings only, it seems not enough for them, so they always look for something more than good personality in the person they plan to live with – as a rule this something can be generalized by one and the same words – welfare.

Of course, love with 'convenience', love based on material interest makes one of the two partners easy, sets him/her free of lots of duties and lets him/her easily relax and indulge in travelling and having fun. But does relationship of convenience bring peace of mind and harmony within oneself to a person? Nope, it doesn't. On the contrary, it makes a person who isn't feeling anything towards the one he/she is in a convenient relationship with feel restless and empty, especially over time when one realizes the whole seriousness of his or her convenience-seeking step.

Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?