'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

Killing Each Other. Softly?

There are several probable outcomes of relationship of convenience. Taking into account the fact that in the majority of cases the relationship is based on deception, one can guess that most of these outcomes, apart from a few exceptions, are negative if not tragic.

One of the probable outcomes of a relationship or marriage of convenience is when people (or a person whose feelings are not too sincere) start killing each other. Of course, the expression is figurative, but I'm sure you get the idea. When you don't love a person dearly, his/her every flaw gets on your nerves – the way he/she eats, the way he/she speaks, the way he snores or the way she puts on make-up...

After some time of living with a person you don't love all these tiny irritations make up an avalanche of negative emotions directed at this person. Then the moment when you realize that you have had enough on your plate arrives – it's better for you to feel its arrival rather sooner or later before you understand that you have wasted so much time on living with someone who gets on your nerves like that.

As a rule, there comes a moment when you feel that your relationship of convenience leads you nowhere. This realization brings you emptiness and total lack of satisfaction from what you have always sought in a person-to-live-with – his/her stable financial condition.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?