'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

Growing to Love Each Other

One of a few positive outcomes of a relationship or marriage of convenience is when the two people (on of the two people) involved in a relationship grow to respect and then love each other. This happens very rarely, for initially convenient 'love' was based on slightly less pure and innocent 'values'. However, this outcome is rare but possible.

For example, there are situations when girls from the developing countries strive to marry men from the well-developed countries. Of course, these girls' initial desire and striving can be bravely called 'convenience' but when they look for their soul mate abroad they scarcely look for someone unworthy. And certainly, it doesn't always imply situations when a girls falls in love right away with her future foreign husband, but when she gets to know him better, once she realizes that his personality is very good and even in some way unique, love will arrive to their house very soon. But still, the initial stage of such relationship and then marriage is 70 per cent based on convenience.

There are other cases when people who are in a relationship of convenience grow to love each other. Definitely, this love is 'processed' through a long-term period of life of getting to know each other, growing to respect each other and trust each other. If people whose relationship is based on convenience do connect over time, in the majority of cases they (or one of them) change their opinion regarding financial stability being the priority in a relationship. It does matter, but it can be lost or on the contrary gained in time.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?