'Love' without Love

Relationship of convenience is a relationship between a man and a woman which isn't based on love; moreover, there is no mutual love existing in such relationship.

The notion of a relationship of convenience implies the fact that the key word is 'convenience', not 'relationship'.

What exactly does it mean? It means that two people - man and woman (typically traditionally) unite in a relationship just because it's convenient for them to be together.

When there are no feelings within the married couple or even if convenience is craved by one of the partners only and the other is blissfully ignorant of it, marriage starts weighing upon you like a heavy dark cloud almost since the very moment when you act out your wedding vows to each other. Such relationship makes a person weak, empty and apathetic.

Falling Apart Anyway

Sometimes relationships or marriages of convenience end in a sad but very predictable way – people just fall apart anyway – after a long-term session of self- and each other-torturing, after a huge wave of mutually non-beneficial reproaches, after they have been overwhelmed with the realization that their global chase after money and luxurious life brought them nothing but emptiness and total lack of peace of mind.

Of course, it's good if people fall apart sooner than later, because in the latter situation regrets may be just too painful, while there's always a chance to build something truer and i.e. more solid with someone you sincerely love after not too much time spent on living with someone without love. Some time vs. lifetime – the difference is global, wouldn't you agree?

As a rule, if 'convenient' relationship falls apart, it means that these people's hearts are not too stony to continue 'loving' without love till the rest of their lives. It means that they finally realized that getting involved in a relationship without love is scarcely something that is normal. It hardly ever brings anything good to a loveless person's mental or physical condition.

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Love without convenience may not suggest material well-being at once, however, it helps two people who are mutually in love with each other, spread their wings and fly enjoying their true feelings that give them freedom.

What's better - wasting your precious life on living in the golden chains of your relationship of convenience or enjoying spending your time with someone who is so dear to your heart, someone who gives you inspiration and a myriad of happy moments? Don't you feel that the answer is obvious?